1-Money
Money is no doubt considered one of the main reasons that's why couples argue. Mostly there is a difference of nature between a couple, if one is spendthrift other like saving and then this leads to the worst argument between them. For example, one partner wants to get something new, while the other partner feels that there is no need of that and no extra cash to afford the price of that thing, so, both have disagreements.
2-Unmet Expectations
Almost in all serious relationships especially, in marriages, basically we place expectations on our partners but mostly this expectationsare are hardly or never met that's why these unmet expectations can create animosity swiftly. These unfulfilled expectations basically are the sources of frustration that leads to an argument between the couple along with the blaming of each other.
3-Children
The reason of a large number of arguments is usually the right way of bringing up the children. The couple argues on the issue that who will take decisions about the future of the children because it is not clear between them what is the role of mother and what is the role of the father. usually, one of the partners wants to deal the children politely while the other wants to deal them strictly, this leads to the argument.
4-In-Laws
I think ninety percent arguments occur between a couple due to the interference of in-laws. There is a huge gap not between the thinking of both partners but also between the thinking of in-laws. The close relatives of mother, father, brother and sister usually consider their right to impose their demands and opinions on the couple, and the opinions of the laws are usually not in favor of the couple and that thing leads to the arguments.
5-Lack Of Appreciation
It is true, that both partners have great expectations from each other and demands lots of appreciation and love from each other, but when they do not get the required love and appreciation, they become depressed. This feeling of lack of appreciation causes frustration, resentment, hurt feelings and ongoing conflict, and later on this frustration and resentment appear in their lives through arguments.
6-Lack of Communication
On the number six, we are going to discuss another main reason of the argument between a couple, that is the "lack of communication". It is rightly said that communication between a couple is as important and beneficial as breathing is crucial for your lungs. Miscommunication is really very harmful for every relation but for marriages it proves worst and creates a great number of misunderstanding between the couple.
7-Jealousy
Jealousy is no doubt worst for a couple, it can even destroy a marriage very easily. No partner can bear that his wife or her husband begin to take interest another person of opposite sex. This the situation creates the very awkward atmosphere between the couple, the one who feels that he is neglected or ignored in front of another man who is appreciated by his wife, then he begins to hate not only that man but also his wife.
8-Cleanliness
It is really impossible that there have been two people who had exactly the same views about the cleanliness. There are mostly the women and a few men who cannot bear any dirt but there are also many people who do not care about cleanliness and known as slobs. It is really tough to live happy for a couple when one is very sensitive about cleanliness and other is a slob, there are arguments and arguments between such a couple.
9-The Blame Game
There are a great number of reasons because of which a couple engages in argument, and one of them is the habit of blaming the others. There are many people who have the childish habit of blaming others, it is really difficult to live with such people. When a member of a couple always seeks other to blame for all things that are going wrong, then it is unbearable for the other and this leads to the argument between them.
10-What to Watch on TV
In the last of the article, I am going to share with you a very interesting but a common reason of argument between a couple and that is the TV. It is true that there is a huge difference between the liking and disliking of men and women, sam is the case during watching the TV. Usually husbands are interested in news and sports channel while wives want to see some Drama or cooking show, so there is a huge argument on the issue of getting hold the remote.
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